About

Fari gonzaque

Guiding professionals to discover the love within themselves, unleashing their potential for connection, joy, and health

this is my

Story

The clashes in my first marriage were frequent and fiery, each argument a reflection of unresolved issues within myself.

My story begins at 21, leaving Iran to break free from an emotionally abusive family.

Faced with the trials of nationality, language barriers, and chronic illnesses, I uncovered a remarkable gift: unwavering compassion and resilience. Each obstacle ignited my determination, forging a path of strength through adversity.

However, my relationships were a different story. My first marriage was stormy, filled with intense emotions and conflicts. I was blind to my own role in the chaos, attributing the turmoil solely to external factors.

Until,

I had to let go...

I realized that if I were to ever find a fabulously fulfilling relationship, it required confronting and releasing the trauma of my past.

In the midst of the turmoil of my marriage, I began to see the patterns. The same resilience that helped me navigate lifeʼs challenges was the key to understanding and transforming my personal relationships. This was both humbling and empowering.

This inner work finally allowed me to forgive my father, which was the key that opened the space for me to meet my current husband, Greg. With him, I’m the happiest I have ever been. He is a blessing.

I found my true

Strength

Now, I am here to help you discover yours so you can finally claim the life you deserve, filled with passion, bliss, and vitality.

Over the past 32 years, working with LA’s most affluent residents as both a coach and personal trainer, I’ve noticed that the more wealth someone has, the more likely they are to suffer from feelings of unworthiness.

By working with my clients on both their physical and mental health, we have achieved life-changing transformations. This includes freedom from impostor syndrome, permanent weight loss, overcoming their drug of choice, and ultimately guiding them to discover new versions of themselves that are ready to welcome true love into their lives.

“Fari is so filled with love and information to assist anyone on their journey. I highly recommend her.”

Fari and I began working together in 2007. She worked with me spiritually as well as physically through 2 rounds of cancer and a stroke. She continued to be my greatest resource for hope and never gave up on my ability to mentally and physically become stronger over time. Fari is an amazing human being - so filled with love and information to assist anyone on their journey. I highly recommend her.

Dr. Jill

Are you in the

right place?

Yes, if you're a successful professional who desires an authentic, fulfilling relationship, and feels any or all of the following:

Inadequate, like you're failing in your personal life despite your professional success
Hollow and unfulfilled, as if you are merely going through the motions of life without truly living it
A deep sense of disconnection from your current partner and guilty for not being present (often escaping into your work)
Haunted by the fear that any new relationship will end in the same painful way as your previous ones

Isolated and lonely because you're afraid to fully open up to new partners
Frustrated because you can't seem to stop micromanaging and controlling your partners, which pushes them away
Insecure and distrustful when trying online dating because you fear you're just being used for status or money
Trapped in a cycle of doubt and suspicion, unable to believe in the possibility of genuine, unconditional love

“Over the last 50 years, I have trained and studied with many teachers and coaches, but Fari is special with her unique combination of skills and insights.”

Fari has the natural ability to sense what is going on in both my body and my mind simultaneously, and instinctively knows the way to reach both. Over the last 50 years, I have trained and studied with many teachers and coaches, but Fari is special. She brings a unique combination of insights and skills to every session. I highly recommend her.

Edward Robins

Awardwinning Actress

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